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I think she's just upset that she won't have the financial stability anymore.


Maybe, but you can't read her mind no matter how hard you try.

The truth is you don't know what she is feeling, and there's a good chance it changes from moment to moment, so who knows if she even has a handle on it?

The financial stablility is one thing to mourn however. If she were desperate to save the marriage, that would be obvious.

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Not sure how to act towards her feelings


Listen and validate. Don't tell her everything is going to work out. Just listen.

As long as she isn't attacking you, of course.

Last edited by TimeHeals; 06/12/10 04:55 PM.

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