Yes I get your point - she is testing me pretty hard - she's been texting the hell out of our neighbor now, there's nothing there and he's moving with his daughter next week - she said to me that she thinks I'm still checking her text messages online (which I do infrequently) but she's waiting to see if I'll call her out on that him next - again trust and control to throw back at me - but I'm a bit smarter than the average bear at times.
The next big trust issue I'm giving her is a huge one- I came into a fairly large amount of cash recently and am waiting on the check 5 figures - I told her I was depositing it ALL into her checking account. The dialog will go like this: I trust you with my life, I trust you with our children's lives, I trust you with everything WE have and this money is just another thing we have.
She can take it and run, pay her bills, our bills or whatever she wants - it's completely her call - it's only money and I always make money - it's not an issue.
That will be a huge 180 for me and I can't wait to see what she does!
Me 49 H 46 M 23yrs T 25 yrs Bomb Drop 4/2010 S22/D19/D15/S13
Same roof, different beds
"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."
