success stories? saved marriages?

[mza8]

Greek, thank you for sharing your experience. I know it helps me to read what worked for you and Coach.

I have a question for you and Coach that I'm not sure has been asked or not. When you and Coach were separated, who was the one to try to initiate contact and how? Calls, letters, anything? When was it clear that the time was right to test the waters? I'm at the point in my sitch where I have been leaving my W alone and taking care of the things that need to be done. It's been 8 months and I'm unsure of what to do next. Continue to wait or begin to ask if she wants to talk, date, something?

It appears that you and Coach were only separated for 3 months before you moved back. That seems like a fairly short time given that most other sitchs tend to be much longer.

Thank you both for continuing to share your story and offer your advice.