Elvencat, be aware that the OW will now (or already has) started to pull her manipulative BS to counteract what you have discussed with your H.

Tread carefully, don't believe him without checking sources. Like if he said he wants to go to counseling and has ended it with OW,

INSIST on no contact letter, full transparency, and you must snoop!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004