Sleazy ass isnt a label, it's name-calling... I understand you are trying to be supportive, I do it too...
QS is having a lot of trouble controlling himself under the situation... He's just compelled to do all the wrong things... many of us do all the wrong things at first...
I just hope he starts to read these posts carefully for the constructive content in them and do the work to put that content to good use.
He has what he needs to put a stop to this if he wants to... But he is having a very hard time focussing... I think if he had kids he would be better able to do so...