This is an incredibly frustrating situation to have to go through that's for sure. I'm just not sure I have the patience she's asking for to continue to go through this. It's absolutely draining me emotionally let me tell you.
Yes it is draining. Not only that,but it does NOT work to wait around for a woman to make a decision. If you do wait around I can tell you for certain that it will be a very very very long time and in the end you will get the answer you don't want to hear...
You are making this more complicated than it is. When a woman WANTS to be with you they will do ANYTHING to be with you.. When they do NOT want to be with you they do what your WS is doing. It is the man who lets her go and moves on without her that wins the woman back. The nice guy who keeps hanging in there ends up without the woman and to top it off has wasted all that time to find out what I can tell you right now. She will not come back totally into you UNTIL you show her you don't want HER anymore and that you have moved on down the road. You will also at that time feel much better about yourself because you have taken the bull by the horns and made the decision FOR HER. You may bery well find her chasing you then...
