8. Last night she had to stay at her moms (medical reason) and I saw that she took her rings and bracelets with her - we had a party to go to that night - we had to arrive separately
Red flag... This is what WS's do when still in an affair..
She uses mom for her cover... Can't she use her moms phone to call OM?
I highly doubt she is done with the OM. She is going underground right now because she knows you are watching her like a hawk. She doesn't seem to be hurting very much which is a good sign that the OM is very much still in the picture. Don't believe her.