H has been very quiet in his tunnel for over a 5 weeks now. No communication with me or the children despite exams going on in the house at the moment. Last communication was about the letter OW sent me which was less than loving!Then it was one text and voice mail message.

I sense he is doing a lot of thinking about where his life is going. I know he needs to be where he is and I need to leave him alone to carry on through the tunnel.

None of our friends or family who he recently contacted again have heard from him in a long time now.

Silence is golden.