Melody just leave him to squim for a week or so... don't talk to him, give him the silent treatment...
Let our in laws beat him up for you...
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1. Put a script together indicating where you stand and your goals 2. Read the script to your in laws as a group if they can do that 3. Show them the video I posted for guerilla divorce busting 4. Don't talk to your H, just keep away from him until you have your head clear and some scripts put together 5. Start working on a script of what you want to say to your H 6. Tell your in laws you welcome any abuse they want to hurl at your husband, but that because you want to save your marriage you won't be doing it yourself
