Flushing the toxins from my life

[TimeHeals]

I'm just looking forward to having this finalized, so I can get some closure on the whole mess.

I read a lot of stuff on this site about closure and assigning it to arbitrary events like the divorce being final.

That's obviously not how closure works. You can read post after post on here, and there are people who find closure before the divorce even starts and people who do not find it years after a divorce.

Closure happens when you move on and stop holding on to all the pain, dissappointment, anger, and so on. When you embrace your own life and are happy to have it, then you will have closure.