Just found out she already filed

[antlers]

"remember you will always be the bad guy in her eyes, that's the way she gets through this, just let as much of it slide by as you can, retaliation only feeds into her fantasy." - whatisis

Wow! That's plain and simple 'good stuff'!

It's very hard to be HATED by someone that once cared so much. It's very hard to be on the receiving end of the things that she and her lawyer are doing. It's very hard to watch the children being damaged by the decisions that she's making, and to feel like she isn't bothered by any of it in the least.

Remember this too, ClingingToHope...by making you responsible for all of it...she makes herself responsible for none of it! And that's probably not the reality of the situation. It rarely is.

How are you doing?