If W wanted to give up on something that we were working on together I should encourage that? And say "your right we cannot do this together its best we hire someone" and inject negativity? We can't do yard work together because w wants to give up (just like our M) and I tell her it is worth doing on our own and keep at it (just like DB to save our marriage), is this the example I want to set?
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10