useful link with WS perspective on ending affairs

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I think you two are talking about 2 different posts....I'm confused!


It is really hard to deal with a WS. They look and sound (well mostly) the same as always, but they are not the same person they were Pre-A. It is hard to accept, but an alien really HAS taken over. Thread after thread here BS's are fighting this notion and try to reason and believe someone now incapable of logic or truth.
Drug addicts usually have altered appearance and a change of speech patterns (ie slurred or slowed) so you KNOW you are dealing with someone differently. WS's appear sober. They are not!
They will say and do anything to protect their supplier.
They will say and do anything to make what they are doing 'ok' in their head (justification and rationalization are the 2 most common distorted thinking patterns they develop)
They will say and do anything to make what they are doing someone else's fault (Blame-shifting)



NM Thanks for posting this. That site has some good stuff from a WS's POV. It is too overwhelming for me to navigate tho!