I'm going to try to distance more. He makes it hard, but I see how effective it has been for you and I need to get back to that.
NC for awhile helped ME immensely. I was able to get off the crazy train, breathe, take a step back, and gain control of myself. I was controlling my behavior, for the most part, but was way to focused on what he was doing, thinking, feeling. It took a couple of weeks to stop the 'mind movies', and begin focusing on myself. The support here was instrumental as well.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
