I decided to say f'em and went to a bar by myself... I had a bite to eat and a few beers and people watched for a bit... Nothing earth shattering... Didn't meet anyone or anything... But I still went out and didn't let their bs keep my mood dark...
Not used to drinking beer... Had a few coors light sub zero... Loved them but now I'm tired ...LOL
I have a BBQ to go to tomorrow afternoon...
Getting all dolled up again... maybe get some pics to post..
~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~
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DG - you brave girl you...you went to a bar all by yourself. Bars scare me. I'll go to a movie, restaurant, theater but so far didn't go to a bar or a pub by myself. Good for you
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If you want to discourage company, bring something with you to do. I like my iPod Touch because it looks like I'm texting on an iPhone, but I'm really playing a game or doing a crossword. Loose papers, no matter what the content (emails, articles, puzzles...), look like you're working.
Ask for the seating you want. If I go someplace where the bar is full of couples, I'll sit there and strike up a convo with those nearby. If it's full of men alone, I look for a table away from the bar, and have something to do or read.
I admit that restaurants/bars alone are not my favorite thing, but I've had to learn to deal because I travel so much by myself. It does get easier the more you do it!
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Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
maybe get some pics to post..