can anyone tell me what standard operating procedure is if your spouse is having a affair and your divorce is not final is it appropriate to contact O M and tell him what is going on and to tell him to back off atleast untill the divorce is final. I understand this will put wife in a tail spin, I'm just not sure what to do please give advice she is planning another trip june 23
me 46 w 42 m 18 years this april two boys 24 & 14 bomb nov. 9 2009 still fighting to hold on
