Thanks Kat, again, she has her issues and obviously they are interfering with her ability to be my friend, I can't do anything about that but I can choose how I will respond, I choose to let go. During the first year of my separation she was there for me and was a real support but now I don't know what her issue is. I don't have a ton of friends so this is a real loss. She also knows how I feel about people who don't follow through and that hurts too and yet she can call and say "I miss you" then not return my phone call! That's weird. OK, I've decided to add this to the post. There was a situation about a year ago where she began being "friends" with a guy who was really bad news, and I mean bad news. I, as a friend, told her so. She told me that they were just friends. OK, I've done my friend bit. Well, turns out she was right because he ended up nailing her sister, who was my best friends wife, and he and sis ran off together! What a friggin' soap opera. Now, whether that had anything to do with anything I don't know but it certainly adds a complexity.
