If it IS an exit affair you won't know unless SHE LEAVES FOR GOOD
Well, she HAS filed for divorce, but she plans on living in the house until the assets begin to be divided (says she doesnt have enough money). I am going to assume that if it WERE an exit affair, she'd have taken everything she owns and actively found another place to live so she could mess around with those guys.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed