Just found out she already filed

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remember you will always be the bad guy in her eyes, that's the way she gets through this

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Yes. I know this feeling. I just signed the papers today to allow her to TRY and sell the house. It's worth $10,000 less than we owe. It needs all kinds of work. She's going to be stuck with it for months or years.

In the end, it'll likely be my fault.

I second WII. Getting defensive doesn't help, but pointing out what you've paid is fine, I think. I mean she can't just say give me $100 if you've wracked up way more than that.

Just don't get too wordy. Short and too the point. She doesn't need to know what you are thinking. Make her wonder.

Last week, STBXW sent me a form saying our house is no longer in a flood plain. That makes me laugh because we flooded in 2007 and it cost us $45k and if we didn't have flood insurance we really would have been up a creek.

I responded simply with "interesting"