You can't QS... Just do the work... stop analyzing and running down negative tunnels man..
QS you seem to be a magnet for the WRONG WAY to think...
You want to listen to everything your wife says and believe it You engage in conversation with her to subject yourself to abuse You believe her lies You immediately react to a situation rather than thinking it through You follow all the negatives like a mouse hunting cheese...
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Do the work, watch the video...
If it IS an exit affair you won't know unless SHE LEAVES FOR GOOD.. you won't know its an exit affair until two years after the divorce and she's moved across the country...
Let it GO and do something constructive...
I have BEEN there man... LISTEN TO ME... you are going to make yourself ILL... STOP IT
