wii...in two words my suggestion is to: steer clear - before you develop romantic feelings for her. I'm sorry I don't want to piss people off or sounds judgemental but I'm saying this from my own experience.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again