yup. I could maybe possibly on a good day perhaps muster up a wee bit more sympathy if I didn't recall that the financial situation he left me in resulted in D and I having no heat for 6 weeks during the late winter/early spring of '09. oh...and he cashed the insurance checks meant for the dentist so D and I have not had any dental care for a couple of years because we owe too much there. oh, and let's see. . .mortgage has been in perpetual modification limbo for the past year-and-a-half because I missed a payment during a time period when I didn't get a paycheck (winter break from school).

and I'm supposed to feel sorry that he owes money for taxes...when I also owe?! I'm having difficulty summoning up any sympathy.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012