Young Wife wants to walk away

[Ton Of Bricks]

I'm glad you can see this from, well, most people's perspective. I don't really know what you can do at this point. She has grown and you may not be what an adult woman wants. And she wants to make sure her kids are safe. I immediately felt she must be identifying with her daughter. She wants to protect her, because she WASN'T, and YOU didn't protect HER!

You are judging me without knowing the whole situation. Maybe her life would have been better without me, I don’t know. I am 12 years older, yes, but I didn’t rob her of anything. She has a good life. She has a home, a good job, 2 beautiful children and lots of friends. My intentions were always honest, and still are.

No wonder she was so mad at God for taking her dad. He PROTECTED her! The minute he was gone, her drunk depressed mother abandons her!

Her mother was DESTROYED by the loss of her husband. She couldn’t take care of herself. For a time, my wife and I cared for her.

Develop your R with God. I think this one is done.

I hope that you are wrong.

And when your daughter is 16, and adult men are lusting after her, try to imagine handing her off to a ? 31 year old.

She was actually 17 going on 18 and I was pretty immature at 29. I know I posted earlier that she was sixteen, but that was when I met her.
I wouldn’t be happy if any men were lusting after my daughter, regardless of their age. Intentions matter. I was not lusting her. I love her. I imagine that someone who lusts would get what they want and move on, not start a family and get married.