One of the reasons I feel all this happened is that I spent FAR too much time away from her and not interacting with her. I feel like she is USED to it by now.

I am not questioning what to do, but how is staying MORE away from her going to make her chase me, if alot of what I did BEFORE was be emotionally unavailable.

Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed