Thanks guys. Hey CG, thanks for stopping by.

So her latest email and I don't know but it's really pissing me off:

"Ok, so I called and argued about the bill got it cancelled. The service that is. So, this bill of $49.06 covers phone for May-june and internet for may 2-june 2. There will be yet another bill for internet from june 3-today coming on/after July 2. So far you owe me for $101.57 for Mar/April, $49.06 that I have to pay today and then the pro-rated for June 3-11 which at $33/mo should be about $10. They wouldnt credit it. Not any of it no matter how mad I got.

Please let me know if you can bring any more of my books and stuff on Sunday or if you want me to drop off DD. I would also like to know when I can come and get furniture and whatnot and we should talk about that. I'm fine with discussing via email but whatever works for you. The furniture items I would like to have are: futon, coffee table, ikea shelf (in living room), kids rocking chair (was mine when I was small), sewing table, night stand, dresser, rattan outside chair with cushion, 2 ikea outside chairs and their stool.

thanks"

So she's keeping score of ever single little thing she purchased or that she wants or that I owe her but she won't see anything that I've been paying for. Maybe I should tell her she owes me x amount for the car insurance, medical insurance, DD's daycare I paid on both sides etc etc. Am I being a doormat if I keep saying 'sure, what else would you like' and she just keeps asking and taking more and more. Besides if she takes a lot of the furniture that means DD will be upset since now even the house will start to look different.

Need some input guys...I'm split between standing my ground for my own dignity and just paying her off to leave me the hell alone.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again