Has he given you his busienss card with a hand written invite to your wife on the back?

Have you told her PARENTS that you aer giong and your wife is snubbing a professional family therapist?

This will freak your wife out - invite HER PARENTS to a session so the FT can meet THEM... your wife will be livid, but if your parents go I am sure it would put her parents in your pocket...

You just need to d-bust the parents too QS, but they aren't addicted, so its a LOT easier...

Did you watch that video I posted?

I think you should get them to watch that IN the SESSION and then talk for 30 mins with the FT and the parents... all four of you...

If her parents tell her outright no other man will be welcome in their home if she runs out on you she will be hard pressed not to back down and attend family therapy...