If you were expecting him to be honest about something he has been lying to you about up until now, that wasn't going to happen just because you wanted it to happen.
If he had come back begging for his wife and family back, that might have been a good time to demand honesty.
It wasn't going to work like this though. I think you sense that.
I know that it is hard. Part of you wants your M and family back together, part of you is afraid that taking him back is a mistake, so you are trying to rush through it, and who knows... because you don't know... you might not be sure you can play this out slow like it would have to play out if it were going to work out that your M is saved?
It's hard stuff. You don't want to pull back. You want an admission if nothing else before you can commit yourself to hoping again?
Hang in there. You said what you said because it was how you were feeling.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
