I viewed it that once I got served D papers then in a year I would be divorced (brutal reality) or we would be reconciled (hope that I would prevail in the end) So I prepared for either outcome with the intention of being a better man regardless. Make sense?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.