"We both are in bad places right now, so I think we should see an EXCELLENT professional in a safe environment and work through this together. Irregardless of whether the Marriage works, we need to see someone and work on THE ISSUES WE ARE HAVING RIGHT NOW. We both hurt each other extremely deeply, and maybe ... we can get the help we both need"
I said this almost word for word to H once. It just made him angry. He currently has not expressed any interest in talking through issues for any reason. If your W currently isn't willing, it would probably just anger her as well. She was willing to go to counseling once before, however, where my H wasn't, but I think you have to look at her attitudes right now.
What do others think?
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
