Thanks everyone for words of wisdom.

I realize most, if not all posters on here have been going through this for months, if not years.

In your experience - did your WAS want "everything" (finances, stuff, moving, custody, child support) settled so quickly?

My H left last Sunday (almost 2 weeks) and from what I can tell has no desire to ever come home and continues to take all necessary steps for us to separate as a couple (ie the bank account)

Is this something that happened in your experience? Please let me know if this is normal (for the situation). It's like he's forgetting we're actually married and is just basically trying to "erase" me entirely.

Note - I do not contact him at all and when I do see him b/c of D2 - I never have R or M talk, ever!

Please offer some insight if you can. Thanks.