coach, i'm trying to keep the stockdale paradox in mind when dealing with my sitch. but i don't know if i'm practicing it the way it is intended.
what does it really mean to have the discipline to confront the brutal facts of my current reality?
can you give me an example to let me know what direction i should be headed in?
the way i see it now is that ok, we aren't together. giving each other space. while we are giving each other space, i am going to do things that make me feel good and happy - like squash and baking. is there a part that i am missing? somehow i feel like i'm really naive about something.
