So I got an attorney and am so torn guys.

Need advice

she says I can do it quick, easy and painless.

I can do an uncontested divorce. Say we haven't had sex in a year. No separation

It doesn't feel right. It makes me feel like indeed this marriage was a sham. And it makes me feel like I'm validiating the affair.

M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson