The issue we BOTH have is that neither of us wants to get hurt again and which one of us is willing to bend........
I am taking time right now to really heal. To really focus on letting her go. She continues to be civil as do I but I am not ready to “take a step”, while someone else is in the picture.
Eric, I have been reading and re-reading what you have written and I just want to say I think you have a good handle on where you are at right now.
You know you are not ready to "bend" or "take a step" right now. But I think at some point in the future, you may be ready to let down your guard, take a chance, be vulnerable, and you will know if and when you are ready.
Hope you have a great weekend !!
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
