I know what you mean BobbiJo, there's a woman at my church who's single, intelligent, great sense of humour but she keeps bringing up in conversation, group or otherwise, how stressful her job is. I listened to that endlessly for 17 years with STBX and that's enough for one lifetime! I had a friend who dated this guy one time, let him know that she wasn't interested and he emailed her saying he'd always remember how brightly the moon shone that night when they were out together. OMG, give me a break!