still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Thanks Red- yeah I wonder if I need to say anything like
"Oh I was going to ask you about the paperwork! You know, I had hoped we were going to work things out but since it doesn't look that way I accept it. I'm ready to find a great guy who will help me raise S!"

How does that sound?

Anyway the dr. wouldn't take me! They said it isn't bad enough yet. If I were like OW, I would have lied and told WH that I had an appointment, just to make him come over here, then went somewhere and came back. BUT I'm me. (yes, I lied about ziplining tomorrow so I can't claim to be a saint!) So I told him and said "thanks so much for offering to watch S though. I really appreciate it!"