Yeah Upside because your h wants it all on his timing. They forget that another's life is involved. I am sure he wasn't happy that you showed up, he did not ask you to and you caught him off guard. I do believe the MLC is much about control as mcuh as it is about depression.

It sounds like you are pushing pushing for the D. I don't blame you, but your h is acting just as we thought he would. Stalling, confused, not sure what to do. Paralyzed to act. Wow, it's too bad they can't just snap out of it. It amazes me what keeps them so stuck.

Same old theme can't move forward or move home, but don't want to get a D either! How long does that play out? STUCK!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"