Thinking of you CagZ. You sound like you are holding onto past hurts. God can fill that if you ask.

Anything is possible with God. Are you praying for your ex h? If so, has God helped you in identifying what to pray for him?

There is nothing wrong with taking time in healing. I personally feel we all let go and heal when it is the right time for us. Doesn't mean we are stuck, just need it to be the right time. It's not a race. Afterall, the LBS were not typically the ones that wanted to end the M, but we are left with all the wreckage.

Try to think of the positives in your ex h. At least he is spending time with his D.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"