I'm glad you can see this from, well, most people's perspective. I don't really know what you can do at this point. She has grown and you may not be what an adult woman wants. And she wants to make sure her kids are safe. I immediately felt she must be identifying with her daughter. She wants to protect her, because she WASN'T, and YOU didn't protect HER!
No wonder she was so mad at God for taking her dad. He PROTECTED her! The minute he was gone, her drunk depressed mother abandons her!
I feel incredibly bad for your W. I don't think I have ever felt that way about a WAW. She was robbed of so much. Did you at least educate her??
Develop your R with God. I think this one is done.
And when your daughter is 16, and adult men are lusting after her, try to imagine handing her off to a ? 31 year old.
