MLC - standing by my man

[Mila]

Thank you OP, M&H & Kissak - I know, I know, you are right...it's just frustrating and confusing. He is definitely complimenting me more now then ever before...wierd

But I really am much more detached now, I don't think of him 24/7 it's more like 23/7 LOL, but seriously it is much better. I don't care what he does, where he goes. I get annoyed when he says that he will do something and he doesn't because being with OW takes precedence.

Like today he just texted D that he can't pick her up from work because he will be out of town. I get annoyed that he took on a chore (to pick her up) and when it doesn't suit him I have to step back in and bail him out...it's the reliability issue. I know...just more of the same MLC crap. I wonder if he will actually tell me as his business partner that he is leaving town again. I brought it up last time that I need to know in order for the business to somehow function...when he is not here there are certain tasks that I have to take over.

He told me that he is not telling me when he is going because he doesn't want OW's husband to know...he is scared of him. I reassured him that I won't tell the H if that's what he is worried about...so we will see if he tells me. He probably won't and if I ask he will say that he thought that I would know from D. I'm not even going to bother to bring it up again.

I really don't care at this point if he would even move to where OW is, it would be in a way easier, but unfortunately I/we depend on the business for our livelihood. We have some jobs to stay afloat for a while, but he is really not putting any effort into it, so the future of our business looks bleak.

Today I started the ball rolling on my Plan B. Renewing my license....signing up for courses and talking to some people. Feels good...it will take months, but that's what I need to do so we can eventually untangle from each other.

Not going to be easy, but I'm optimistic about the future even if he is not part of it