Quotes found on Divorcebusting (II)

[Ready2Change]

Your roadmap...

Be a HAPPY MAN... Repeat.. Be a HAPPY MAN...
Life is good.. Enjoy life. Be and act happy.


CONSISTENT, SILENT changes you have needed to make.
Don't say a word to her about those changes. Just make them.

Little things that you can do. Do them and don't mention them.

EXAMPLES...
Do you pick up after yourself? If not, then start doing it.

Hand her the remote to the TV. "Here honey, find something you want to watch.. (HAPPILY)

Walk up behind her when she is at the kitchen sink and give her a QUICK 5 or 10 second back rub and then whisper in her ear, "I just want you to know I love you"... then walk away as if you stopped by to rub her on your way to taking out the garbage or on your way to go mow the lawn.. (short, quick, then walk away)


When was the last time you took her car on your day off and filled it with gas, checked the oil, checked the air pressure, had it washed, etc?... (and said nothing when you brought it back) HAPPILY...

LITTLE THINGS....LITTLE THINGS.... THOUGHTFUL THINGS...

THOSE are the things that women notice in your situation that doesn't come across as pressure. THOUGHTFUL without being smothering.....


Give your DAUGHTER some extra money to go shopping with your wife. You DAUGHTER,not your wife. Do this when your wife isn't around. Just tell your daughter that you are proud of her and just wanted to let her know and to spend it as she wishes... (say nothing to your wife about this).....


THOSE are the types of things that wives respond to when in your type of situation. SILENT. Consistent. Do not bring up the things you do. Just do them.

That is a start. No relationship talk. Men are doers. Don't worry. She will notice.

Thanks.

One needs to be careful on this site with that type of advice.

After all.. One size does not fit all..


I shouldn't have to,but I better clarify to Slip...

Don't do all of these things in one night okay?

Keep up your own hobby's and interests. HAPPILY.

Just learn to be observant and learn to be THOUGHTFUL..

Winning her back won't be all about flowers, romantic dates, gifts and cards... It will be more about the little things that gain her respect and then the other things like flowers and stuff will work their way in. Thoughtful things that you do that you don't mention to her.