Need help Busting Affair.

[elvencat]

I'm making an appt for next Thursday, it's his only office day due to his teaching schedule. So I'll see how the first appt goes and pass on the info. I've also thought of the exposure aspect and him working for the same universit so I will definitely be interested in what he has to say.

Other interesting info - I asked H for the last name of his counselor because I only knew her first name. H told me then asked why. I used it as an opportunity to tell him that I was making an appointment with a marital therapist for myself and that he had an associate with the same first name and I wanted to make sure it wasn't the same person. H seemed surprised that I was actually going through with contacting a marital therapist.

I also like the idea of the personal invite and leaving it for H to decide to pick up or not. H would probably try to say it's passive agressive of me, but I believe, like you, that he needs to feel it's his choice.