Agreed with Abbey 150% on everything said as I've been noting the same observations for how long AC? I'm telling you, she's not acting, she is hurting and confused, and now she's gone and done the same thing you did, most likely just to get back at you. Hell, maybe even try that approach with her? "Look I've disrespected you, and after some thought, I can understand why this D and A (at any degree) would seem just to you, fair is fair, can we get past this?"
Abbey,
Curious, you've been back together well over a year now and there's still "sooooo much hurt"?
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11