AND if this guy does work at the uni he may be able to give you some insight on exposing there too...

There is some debate about exposure and addiction regarding infidelity...

SOme argue yes and others reccomend a softer approach... I favour the hardball route myself, I have myself and I have also seen others here try the softball route go on for two years or more and result in pain and depression...

I am pretty high exposure and endorse that heavilly... it will be interesting what this professional says...

I hope he has read Glass, Harley, and Tupy, they are experts in the field of infidelity