Sounds excellent.. I suggest you start going to set an adult example for your H... he isnt' gonig to act like an adult if he doenst see one... and you going to therapy will show him this is the adult thing to do...
My advice is to get the therapist to write an invite to him on teh back of his business card by hand and by name :
Hi Mr Elvencat, I would very much like to help you explore resolving conflicts with your wife. I would meet you individually first of course. Give me a call any time you like to setup an appointment.
I wish you all the best in your marriage and your lovely family
Dr Affair-Buster
Something like that.. .of course, the pro would know better than i, but my advice is to get something like that.
Do NOT hand it to your husband, put it on a table and let him know its there and wait for HIM to pick it up, he needs to feel like he's making his choices teh whole ride... if you hold it out to him he's going to feel ilke you are pushing it on him...
But you go and set an example...
There is a good vid I put up in quicksilver's thread too.. i may have shared with you already.. its worth watching and sharing with yoru exposure group
