Hey Allen.. the STBXW sent me a text yesterday wondering who would pick up son from her grandmother and to let me know what time the pickup would be.

I did not text back.

It has been the same time and place for six months and my mom picks him up.

My mom had to pick up newphews dad at airport he came in for nephews 8th grade graduation. He is stationed in virgina in the navy.

So my mom shows up with BIL and i guess son was a little scared of him because he has not seen him sence he was one. He caulmed down in seconds. No big deal.

MIL sent me a text a couuple of hours later..... have you seen son yet or heard from your mom. Granny wants to know cause he did not want to go with your mom and kept crying and reaching for grannie. We want to know if he is ok and calmed down.

My reply he is fine. He just hassent seen BIL in a year and didnt rember him when he went to pick him up. Not a big deal.


Then she texted back granny felt bad and didnt want to leave him.
Give him a kiss for us and tell him we love him.

I said will do.

These people act like if son is not with them then something is wrong. Basicaly Mil is F...ed up way of thinking.

Well i sent her a text pick of son on kids quad smiling. That should shut her up that son does have loads of fun with his dad.


I refuse to play their games.


Me 37
Waw 32
son2
bomb 8/11/09
O/M 12/25/09
Divorce filed 8/25/09
divorce finale 6/16/10
Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10
Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10