Ok there has been a little bit of activity...
this week during the drop offs/pick ups I have been warm, bubbly, talking about S, sharing info about my activities with and without S, and wearing new clothes.

Sunday night I texted about painting the bathroom.
Monday he offered to help me; I accepted.

Tuesday night I texted him asking him if he could use his chain saw to remove the ugly bush in the front yard and we had a little back and forth texting.

Wednesday I didn't communicate at all.

Thursday I sent a pic of our lawn without the ugly bush (I used a free photoshop program) and he said we could take out the bush if I like. So I said yes, I like and then asked him a q about S' feeding. He didn't reply but when he picked up S On Thursday night he said "work was so crazy that I didn't get a chance to reply to your text!" Of course I said "that's ok! I know you don't sit by your phone and text all day!"

Also that night he asked if he could come over earlier on Saturday to mow the lawn and I got to say "actually I already did it!" in a playful tone. I was disappointed though when he said that he would have the landscapers remove the bush when they come out in a couple of weeks...he just hasn't gotten around to setting it up. So he won't be doing it himself. Oh well!

Then I asked him about some treatment for the cough I have (since he had it before). Again he offered to take S if I got too sick.

Then this morning he texts me to let me know that I should go to the dr. to see if I have bronchitis and they could give me antibiotics. I said thanks, but it's hard to take S with me to the dr. I will go to urgent care on Monday p.m. when you pick him up for the night. He replied that he had a meeting over at 3 and he could come over and watch S for me so I could go to the dr!

So of course I said thank you-I want to be well for ziplining tomorrow (lol!) and truthfully I am feeling crappy.

Gee, wonder if it bugs OW that he will be coming by to watch S- won't she say "she can get a sitter?" lol!

don't worry-- still just watching and observing--not overreading into anything! After all, I close the show in a few weeks anyway!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004