You have every right to be angry, but don't let it rule your emotions. You probably should try and detach emotionally from him (loving him from a distance). Hope this makes sense.

The email should be kept short and simple, IMHO:

"The wedding is on xxx at xxx. I will be getting them a gift on my own, but don't mind adding your name to the card. I will not be staying overnight, and have cancelled the room reservation."

Hope this helps some.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim