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june72:
I complain and then it takes me a day to get back here-what a deal I am.
Thank you for the encouraging words. I hope that she is noticing the changes in me and my remorse. I've got patience, consisstency, determination, and dedication. Just going to have to work on time being on my side and learn to give her space.
I have already offered the lie detector test (hell my father in law has told us that he would even go so far to pay for it). She didn't put too much faith in to the test and didn't want me too, but just going ahead and doing it might be worth a shot!
Yes I'm available for all those events. Son's BD was a few weeks ago and WE all enjoyed that together. Had a weenie roast for Memorial Day Weekend together also.
Unfortuantely/Sadly I would have to proove myself worthy of a third and final chance. (Final b/c I wouldn't need another one!)
Hopefully she will change her mind and give us one more chance? Hopefully she will see that I have changed and that I am so sorry.
I have offered to move and meant it, but she doesn't want to. (A hole bunch of ties to where we are at that includes both our parents live on the same street as we do, a farm and about 120 of cows that I could gladly give up if that would make a difference). Her parents already know what I have done and my determination to win her back.
Yes I agree that I need to learn from a various set of resources that include sites like this, IC, MC, and anything else I can think of. This is how I now occupy my time.
Thank you for the advice on writing a letter vs face to face talk. I believe that would be a wiser choice in our situation.
I too think that the D is what she plans on doing. She has said that is what is going to happen and that is the type of person she is and I have always admired her for those qualities. I will not give up, she is my wife and I love her. I know its gonna be a rough road and hard to hang on, but I have to. Its what I want to do! Thank you for the tips and advice.