lol! I was trying to recruit other opinions besides mine! Hope I didn't come across as rude! Well about the cake eating- it is close to fence sitting in my book, you know? You really haven't given him much cake! Maybe some frosting?

Again, based on what you said about OW and how you are keeping your stand, it seems logical (IMO) to continue doing what you are doing.

My anniversary is 7/28!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004