Tonight W and I fought over taking care of son after I brought him home from a scooter ride. He skinned his knee. I wanted to shower him, and he was worried about the water hurting his cut.
W comes in thinking she will take care of him when I was doing fine. He became more worried with her there than when I was talking to him. She told me not to tell her what to do, and I said you bet I will.
I told her to leave and let me take care of son. Once she left, he let me shower him, and he had a great time. She just makes things worse for him and me. She tells me mothers know best. I thought to myself if you were a good mother that might be true. She is not a terrible mother, but she has put herself first for so long that she does not know what the kids need the way I do. Mother or Father does not matter if you don't know your own kids. I did not back down, and I won't.
Daughter asked which one would you choose daddy or the TV. She said, "there is no comparison." I knew what she meant. I don't care too much.
She will be served tomorrow the response tomorrow, and the motions by Sheriff to our home in week or two. I almost thought about sending it to her work, and I still may do that. Is that too much to do. I know I should not, but she just irritated me so bad tonight.
If her work knows about the affair, it may not be a bad thing to serve it at work. It'll give them something to talk about.
